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NEWEST ************************** Monday, Jul. 17, 2006 - 1:08 a.m. ************************** "There are things in this world that make me cry;" "There are things in my head I dare not touch;" "There are reasons why I don’t;" "There are too many questions;" "There are not enough answers;" "There are never enough answers;" "These are just words;" "They
are here for you..."
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QUOTE FOR THE DAY:
"Throughout
life you will meet one person who is unlike any other. This person is one you
could forever talk to. They understand you in a way that no one else does or
ever could. This person is your soul mate, your best friend. Don't ever let them
go, for they are your guardian angel sent from heaven up above." *************************************************************** A
Soul Mate. This is supposed to be the person who is perfectly matched to be yours for life. Although not born alongside, and made for you, they are said to be there, you just have to look for them, or find them. Usually you would want to marry this person, but sometimes you are unfortunate enough to marry the wrong person. Your soul mate always understands you, and even if you do not always agree, you always get along. It is believed that every person who can give love has the potential to have a soul mate. A soul mate will grow with you, and despite changes, you will always be connected, and will not grow apart. Both of you grow in a way that might not be together, but is compatible with each other. Does that make sense? If you give love, you will always receive it in some other way or another. I am a romantic and believe that everyone that is capable of love has a soul mate. If this wasn't true, what is the purpose of life? Love, in my mind anyway, is the reason that we are alive, to find love. As two souls grow together, they strive for the ideal of being soul mates. Soul mates are made, not born. Your soul mate is not determinate, except perhaps in retrospect. There may be many potential soul mates for you in the world. The one with whom you choose to invest your time and love will become
"the" soul mate for you. The classical one, true soul mate seems to imply destiny, and discounts virtue in favour of luck. It propagates a view that the Universe owes me love, rather than an
"economy" where you reap what you sow, where the quality of love you find is comparable to that of the love you give. Not everyone is a viable soul mate. If you're sufficiently too choosey, no one is a viable soul mate! Relationships fall apart when one or both participants are unwilling or unable to maintain the relationship to their mutual satisfaction. If souls grow, we hope they grow together, but the reality is that sometimes they grow apart. You have seen so many relationships that seemed perfect take a downward spiral and leave people hurting and alone. You have a lot going on in your life, and you want your decisions to be
right. You like the challenges of dating, yet you are hesitant to love. My advice: There is someone out there who will sweep you off your feet, so lift that head up! No relationship is perfect, and most people experience terrible break-ups. Just remember that you are one of those down to earth people at heart, and you need to be more open with it so that you do not let life...or love...pass you by. If the headline here fits in the negative degree, you probably didn't take this test for a positive answer. You more than likely do not believe in soul mates and, if you do have one out there, you really are not worried about finding them. Chances are, the idea of you having a soul mate or being a hopeless romantic is idealistic and foolish and you are more interested in having fun and doing your own thing. Why be wrapped up in looking or waiting for the impossible? Either way it goes, you will probably find the right person for you, depending on your perception on the
matter. If you are open to wanting that soul mate, keep making the necessary improvements to be more open, and you will be fortunate. If you're one of the few who take this that are not looking for or believing in one special person, keep on
living how living suits you, and have fun with your realistic perception on life.
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