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NEWEST ************************** Monday, Nov. 29, 2004 - 1:32 a.m. ************************** "There are things in this world that make me cry;" "There are things in my head I dare not touch;" "There are reasons why I don’t;" "There are too many questions;" "There are not enough answers;" "There are never enough answers;" "These are just words;" "They
are here for you..."
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QUOTE FOR THE DAY:
"The
things that people in love do to each other they remember, and if they stay
together it's not because they forget, it's because they forgive." ***************************************************************
It still feels like our first night together
Still feels like our best times are together
Please forgive me I know not what I do *************************************************************** "I
forgive you." Three small words that can be easily formed with the lips. Three small words that not only are one of the greatest things to give to someone, but the hardest to part with. These words often lodge themselves within the throat. The throat traps them and can make us choke. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you can or ever will forget. It’s near impossible to forget the act of another that has caused us pain. You can never forget words spoken harshly, because they often become a part of who we are and who we will become. The hurtful acts and words can bring with them a pain that is indescribable. It is enough pain, sometimes, to make those three valuable words hard to release. We have a tendency of reliving or replaying things said or done to us that causes our pride and our hearts to feel the pain. With each hurt, a wound is created within us. The more we relive it, the more we let it fester, the harder it is to heal. Over time, without forgiveness, a scar will form. It is a scar that tears open with each remembrance. It rips apart with each re-enactment of the pain we’ve experienced at the hand of another. With the three little words of
"I forgive you", we find the strength to heal. We find the strength to move past whatever caused us pain. We, in turn, become a better person in the long run, a better person than the one that caused us pain. It isn’t unusual to condemn ourselves or to lay blame upon ourselves when someone hurts us. I am guilty of that. But all in all, all that seems to accomplish is to make us feel the pain even more. We, in turn, hurt ourselves when we aren’t to blame. It makes forgiving even harder and tougher to give to someone else. Let’s not think of forgiveness as extending a gift to someone else. Instead think of it as giving yourself a gift. You are giving yourself a gift to move on. It is a gift of a step toward healing. We are worth that, aren’t we? Sad, lonely, distant and unique.
You are quite distant from emotion and You're are truly unique yet
fail to see it, and are quite creative be it in You used to let
people in now you don't even bother to try Your attitude is that you don't need anyone but But you really do want to trust someone This kind of depression can turn dangerous, So most likely sooner or later
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